Before we dive in, an important note: Yes, your baby will sleep again—and you will too.
Sleep regression is exhausting for babies and parents alike. Understanding why sleep regression happens, the sleep regression stages you can expect your baby to pass through, and how to manage each stage can help you stay sane as you work through this trying time. Taking care of yourself is important during sleep regression as well (easier said than done, we know). Here, we'll take a look at everything you need to know about sleep regression, including tips to help you get your baby back on track. We'll also talk about steps you can take to protect your own physical and mental health when you're struggling to keep your eyes open. Ready? Grab a cup of coffee (or three—we don't judge) and let's dive in.
What is baby sleep regression, and when does it occur?
Baby sleep regression is a period of time during which a baby shifts from their current sleep pattern back to a previous sleep pattern. Periods of sleep regression can be exhausting for parents and babies alike, and understanding what's happening during sleep regression can help you understand the best ways to support your baby.
Common signs of sleep regression in babies
Signs of sleep regression in babies can include:
- Fussing or crying more than normal
- Frequently waking at night
- Taking shorter naps, or skipping naps altogether
- Fighting naps or bedtime
- Difficulty falling and staying asleep
Causes of sleep regression and how long it lasts
Researchers aren't sure about what causes sleep regression. That being said, sleep regressions seem to be tied to babies reaching developmental milestones, such as needing to transition from two naps to one nap throughout the day, learning to crawl, starting to talk, or taking their first steps. An increase in your baby's appetite can also cause sleep regression, as they may struggle to sleep when they're feeling hungry.
Some babies also seem to experience sleep regression after a life change, such as getting a new sibling, moving to a new room or a new home, potty training, and moving from a bassinet to a crib or from a crib to a bed.
It's important to keep an eye on your baby's symptoms, as certain health conditions can be mistakenly diagnosed as a sleep regression period. Some health issues that share symptoms with sleep regression include teething, reflux, and growing pains.
Establishing a consistent routine
There's no way around it: the vast majority of parents experience at least a few sleepless nights in the weeks and months after welcoming a new baby. That being said, establishing a consistent bedtime routine can help your baby fall and stay asleep more easily.
Try these tips to create a consistent bedtime routine for your baby:
- Pay attention to your baby's natural rhythm. Some babies tend to follow a strict sleep and wake schedule, while others may need more or less sleep depending on their activity level throughout the day. It's important to take cues from your baby to help you determine whether they need a stringent, to-the-minute routine or if they'd prefer a slower, laid-back process.
- Follow the same steps night after night. Routines help your baby feel safe and comfortable, using a bedtime routine can help signal to your baby's brain that it's time to rest. Your baby's routine will depend on their needs and preferences. Depending on your baby, their routine might include a story, bath, cuddles, a feeding, and a goodnight song. Using a similar, shorter routine during naptime can reinforce these cues.
- Keep a daily schedule. Many babies seem to sleep better when they follow a similar schedule from day-to-day. When your baby knows what to expect, they may feel a sense of security and comfort that makes it easier for them to drift off to sleep at night.
Your baby is a unique individual, and it's important to create a routine that works for your baby and your family. It can take some guesswork to figure out what type of routine best helps your baby ease their way into dreamland. Keeping a journal of what works and what doesn't can help you develop a winning bedtime schedule.
Strategies for soothing and comforting the baby during sleep regression
When your baby is exhausted and struggling to sleep, it can be tough to figure out how to offer them the comfort that they need to relax. In addition to creating a consistent bedtime routine and keeping a routine throughout the day, there are some steps you can take to help your baby drift off to sleep.
Tips to comfort your baby during a sleep regression period include:
- Swaddling: Wrapping your baby up in a blanket may help them feel safe and secure, making it easier for them to fall asleep.
- Shushing: Making a quiet "sh sh sh" sound may help your baby feel a sense of calm that allows them to rest.
- Gentle rocking: Rocking your baby in a rocking chair can help them relax and begin to fall asleep.
- Stay calm: We get it—when you're exhausted, it's easy to overreact. The more you can stay calm, the more your baby will be able to do the same, allowing them to drift off to sleep sooner than if they were upset.
- Comfortable environment: Be sure that your baby's room is a comfortable temperature and has low lighting to create an environment conducive to restful sleep.
As we mentioned earlier, there are some cases in which the symptoms of other health conditions are diagnosed as sleep regression. It's important to reach out to your pediatrician if your baby's sleep regression lasts for more than a month. In addition to providing peace of mind, an appointment with your pediatrician can alert you to any issues and provide you with personalized tips and tricks that may help your baby get back on their normal sleep schedule.
Tips for you to manage your own sleep and well-being
Self-care isn't selfish, especially when you have a new baby at home. No matter what phase of life your child is going through, it's important to take care of yourself so that you can provide them with the support they need. Getting enough sleep, eating foods that fuel your body well, and enjoying healthy movement that leaves you feeling rejuvenated—not exhausted—can all help you prioritize your well-being.
Understanding your own sleep cycles can provide insight into how you can get better rest each night. Paying attention to when you go to bed, periods of restless sleep, and when you're most likely to wake up refreshed can all help you make adjustments to your sleep routine that allow you to wake up feeling as rested as possible.
It can be tempting to continually order take-out when you're exhausted, but doing so over and over again can create a downward energy spiral. Keeping track of what you're eating can help you get the healthy food necessary to feel your best. There's no need to try to become a gourmet chef when your baby is up multiple times every night! Keeping fresh fruits and veggies, pre-prepared protein options, and complex carbohydrates on hand can help to keep your energy levels high.
Healthy movement—even if it's just 10 minutes a day as you and your little one get through this tough season—can help to support healthy energy levels. Getting your baby out for a walk, enjoying a quick yoga session while they roll around on a blanket next to you, or a few cardio boosts (jumping jacks, burpees, jump squats, high knees, etc.) can all help to release the feel-good chemicals that come with exercise.
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